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Children or no children? 
30th-Sep-2013 05:49 pm
Wolf- Fantastic Mr. Fox
Poll #1936497 Children

Which of the following describes you? (Both biological and adopted children count.)

I don't have children and don't want them.
I don't have children and am not sure whether or not I want them.
I don't have children, but want them in the future.
I am trying to have a child right now, whether by trying to conceive or adopt.
I have at least one child that I kept, but hadn't planned on having them.
I have at least one child that I kept, and hadn't been sure whether I wanted them.
I have at least one child and had wanted children before having them.
1st-Oct-2013 12:06 am (UTC)
Good poll - there needs to be more respect for people's choices regarding having children.
1st-Oct-2013 12:20 am (UTC)
I got this idea when I was reading about the debate over whether it's "selfish" to choose not to have children. I don't think it's selfish at all, in these days of overpopulation--bad parenting is more selfish IMO.
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1st-Oct-2013 01:11 am (UTC)
I wish that I had thought to put that as an option. It sounds like you're in a pretty similar situation to the one I'm in. I've wanted children for years but due to life circumstances, I cannot afford them, and am likely also infertile. And it's distressing.
1st-Oct-2013 01:05 am (UTC)
I would like to have children but my husband is sterile. We are embracing a child-free lifestyle and not exploring other alternatives to being parents.
1st-Oct-2013 01:13 am (UTC)
I want to try to get pregnant if I end up in a position where I can afford it. But if it turns out I can't, I'm prepared to approach the childfree life too. I'm not very interested in adopting.
1st-Oct-2013 03:17 am (UTC)
There is a difference between "wanting" children and making a conscious decision to have a child.
1st-Oct-2013 03:21 am (UTC)
am i seriously the only person here who got knocked up unexpectedly? hahaha.

and i will say that even though i did not plan on ever having children, nor did i think i wanted any - i couldn't be happier with the child i have. she is so amazing, and i am completely blessed and very lucky to have her in my life.
1st-Oct-2013 07:39 am (UTC)
I never want my own children, I love kids though and I want to adopt at least one child in the future if I can afford it, otherwise I will be childless.
And to clarify, by afford I mean to be able to bring them up and provide them with everything they need...unless I get past minimum wage, that's not going to happen.
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2nd-Oct-2013 06:42 am (UTC)
That makes sense. I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
2nd-Oct-2013 04:22 am (UTC)
Don't have them, don't want them, don't like them. Essure FTW!
2nd-Oct-2013 06:43 am (UTC)
I've heard stories of childfree women having a hard time finding a doctor who will sterilize them. I'm glad that you got the Essure procedure so you don't have to worry :)
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