If a friend were getting handfasted, or some other not-currently-legal form of married, such as a same-sex marriage, would you get them a gift? (this is someone you'd expect to get a gift from if you were getting married)
If a friend were adopting an older child (older than, say, 5) would you give them a baby-shower (but age appropriate) type present? (this is the type of friend you'd expect a baby shower present from if you were having a baby)