By the way it's a 30 minute drive to their place, so coming over after they pack up would be a waste, if I go I'd go the same time my husband does.
Should I help them move and later hang out?
Yes. They are your friends simple as that.
No. If you'll be in the way whats the point?
Yes. For some other reason.
No. For some other reason.
I ended up staying home. A friend came to pick my husband up and before they left I asked do you think I should go? In which my husband thought for a moment and said "it would be a bit awkward for you perhaps staying here is for the best. I'll tell them to call you before they leave so you can say bye." After that they both left.